Wednesday, May 21, 2014
Reciprocity
Relationships between human beings, societies or institutions are based on exchange in which all parties have a mutual understanding of their rights and obligations.
Reciprocity involves in mutual exchange of gifts, products, services, favours, kindness, money and other types of obligations.
Relations between members of an immediate family or between spouses are based on obligations such as obedience or respect.
Relations can be forged through gifts or personal favors and bring with them obligations and expectations. For every action, something is expected in return.
Those who do favors are highly esteemed; they are recognized as people who have respect for those around them. Every previous or current situation produces expectations for future behavior on the part of the giver and gift recipient."
Almost all our relationship begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods.
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
The universe doesn't owe us
"The universe doesn't owe us condolence or consolation, it doesn't owe us nice warm feeling inside." Richard Dawkins
Fiction, myths, meme, illusions and falsehood
Fiction, myths, meme, illusions and falsehood has been passed down from generation to generation.
Saturday, November 2, 2013
Don't waste our time trying to please and impress people around us.
Don't waste our time trying to please and impress people around us. This isn't an excuse to be an inconsiderate jerk, but we must put a high value on our time. Learn to say no to people who don't show interest and respect us.
Helping other people is great but it is better to focus on serving the greatest good than simply appealing to the whims and fancy of our friends and family. Don't waste our energies trying to fit other expectations. Set our own dreams, standards and ambitious and make it our highest priority.
Altruism is an illusion but it's not selfish to love ourselves, take care of ourselves and make our happiness a top priority.
Sunday, September 1, 2013
Fooling Around
I don't fool myself into believing I have a winning system, best method, tactic, technique, theory, strategy or secret formula!! Lady Luck, fate, lot, chance, fortune, Law of Average, and Randomness always trick me into thinking I have that when I don't.




